Love in the time of COVID – Tips for Planning in Uncertain Times

 
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Facing COVID-19 during wedding planning.

How to prepare for the unexpected.

Couples everywhere are facing changes due to the coronavirus and trying to navigate an ever-evolving situation.

Whether you decide to postpone or choose to walk down the aisle, there is no right answer to how you are handling your wedding day. Hopefully, you find comfort in knowing that there are couples everywhere going through the same situation. During this difficult time, we decided to celebrate five couples who chose to say "I-Do" during a global pandemic. Like you, we could all use a little cheer right now.

From living rooms to backyards, we found so much beauty in these intimate wedding celebrations. When people face adversity it's amazing to see how creativity flourishes.

Before we show you how these couples celebrated their love, we want to give you ways to better prepare for your own wedding while so much is uncertain. Here are some things you may want to consider during the planning process.

Make a plan B, and probably a plan C.

Be prepared, but be willing to be flexible.

1. Deciding if you should postpone. If your wedding is scheduled for fall, you might feel like you are in a "gray area." We recommend that you get communication rolling with your venue or event planner to collectively come up with a contingency plan (or two). That way as information comes in you can make decisions efficiently. Ultimately you'll make the best decision for you, your partner, and your family.

2. Create a communication plan to inform your guests about any changes. We recommend relaying your message via a wedding website or email. You may also want to consider a FAQs list for your guests, who will have similar questions around travel refunds, a new date, venue requirements when in attendance, etc.

3. Try to be flexible. When working with vendors to reschedule services, try to keep an open mind. If you were planning on a Saturday ceremony, securing another Saturday later in the year may be difficult. You might need to consider a different day of the week. By choosing a Thursday, Friday, or Sunday, you may have a better chance of securing all your vendors. AND don't worry, your guests will make it work, they LOVE you.

4. It's okay to be sad, throw yourself a pity party. It's normal to feel disappointed or upset. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and understand that they are valid. Make sure to talk to your partner, friends, and family to cope. And it's still okay to get a tub of ice cream and eat your feelings.

Celebrate your date, no matter what.

It’s STILL your day, make it special.

5. If you postpone, you should celebrate your original date anyway. Who doesn't love a reason to celebrate!?! Even if it's not your actual wedding date, it will always hold a special place in your heart, so we say CELEBRATE! Pop some champagne over a special date night.

6. Hire a planner. Enlist in the help of an expert with some one-on-one consulting. Many planners offer things a la carte.

7. Be prepared to move quickly. Time is of the essence, so be ready to move quickly. You have lots of competition, so many are in the same boat. It will require your utmost optimism and flexibility. Remember, through it all, your day will come, and trust us when we say it will be the most amazing day! When you are able to gather with your friends and family to celebrate your love, there will be nothing else like it!

And remember we are always here for you. For now, be inspired by how these couples created their perfect day!